Foundations For Healthy Relationships

Essential foundations for healthy relationships

 

YES….you can have genuine and honest relationships with people, even if they are different from yourself. Many times your relationships with friends, spouses, family members, and children become strained in spite of your best efforts.

The Modern Spiritual Living Spiritual Dynamics Of Relationships Program will assist you with important insights that will enable you to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Traditional relationship methods are not as effective as in the past. Isn’t it true that the old ways no longer work as well?

1. You are a soul with a physical body

You are a free soul with a life purpose. You have come to learn and grow. This evolution takes place through interaction with people you attract to your life. Frustration and resentment result when there is a subconscious feeling of restraining your innate freedom.

2. You have Spiritual Contracts with many people

You have come to learn from others. Your parents, spouses, and children cannot satisfy all your needs for growth. You need many friends and associates to fulfill your life purpose. The family unit provides moral support, love, and ultimately pure acceptance. When in balance your “family” satisfies certain core needs. However there will be instances where “family members” will need other friendships or associations to fulfill those “contracts.” Problems arise when limitations are placed because of fear.

 

3. Your Avenues of Perceptions shape the manner in which you perceive and interact with life

There are basically four ways that you interpret an incoming thought pattern or energy.

• There is the Intuitive person who will pick up a thought and hear ft. He is sometimes considered a “mental” or “intellectual.” Understanding is very important to him.
• There is the Visionary who will pick up a thought and see it. He sees visions, symbols, colors, etc. in the mind’s eye transforming the thought into an image. He is sometimes considered to have a photographic mind or to be clairvoyant.
• There is the Prophetic person who receives a thought as a knowing. He quickly grasps the “total” concept or idea and has no interest in breaking it down intellectually. He is usually sensitive to precognition and his hunches,
• There is the Feeling person who picks up a thought and translates it into a feeling. Their whole response to life depends upon how it feels to him. His sense of touch is extremely well-developed and he knows people by feeling what they feel.

You live primarily by one of these personality types and partially by the other three. Once you discern this, you can begin to understand yourself and those around you to a greater degree.

4. The Seven Year Cycles are a guide to your evolution

The reason you have a physical body is to anchor yourself to planet earth. If you did not have that anchor, you would float back out into the universe. Science tells us that about every seven years we have a complete renewal of the physical body, and that most cells in the body are replaced every three to twelve years.

While you are here on planet earth your life move in rhythms or cycles. It takes seven years to master a cycle or a state of consciousness. It is similar to a farmer planting his crop. If he nurtures it, he will have an abundant crop in due season. If he neglects his crop, he will have many weeds and a skimpy harvest.

Depending on the Avenue Of Perception you chose this lifetime, there are certain tendencies you will have and certain lessons you will learn in each of the seven-year cycles. This lifetime is your opportunity to learn and grow.

• 0 – 7 Cycle of Early Development: Babies are sometimes called “old souls in young bodies” because they are closer to the wisdom of the universe. In their pure spiritual state, they have nothing else to go by but their feelings and their spiritual helpers, because their intellect is not yet developed.
• 7 – 14 Cycle Cycle of Expansion: During this cycle of life, the perceptions of Intuition, Visions, Prophecy, and Feeling are very noticeable. The intellect is developing rapidly and the child is learning to think for himself. He is sensing where he fits in relation to a bigger picture.
• 14 – 21 Cycle of Identity: Young people are concerned with finding out who they are as individuals. This is the age of independence. Freedom of choice is very important during this time. Young people begin to reawaken to the same sense of freedom they had when they were born. The only difference is they no longer need someone to tell them what to do. All they need is just a few guidelines to live by.
• 21 – 28 Cycle of Involvement: Having outgrown the restrictions and shelter of the family, we are impatient to find our niche and purpose. During this cycle, we are shaping our life’s dream. There is often the feeling that out of sheer willpower we can accomplish. We seek adventure, inner strength, romance and intelligence. We have a lot of feelings about what we think we should do in areas of marriage, education, and career.
• 28 – 35 Cycle of Spiritual Search: During this time in our lives, we begin to alter our beliefs, make new choices, and deepen our commitments. We want to change the life we laid out for ourselves in the last cycle. We are concerned with making our own way, being able to steer our own life in the direction we choose.
• 35 – 42 Cycle of Evaluation and Change: In this period, there is a greater concern with the sense of time. We begin questioning more what we really believe. We realize we no longer need to ask permission from others to do things because we have learned to provide for ourselves. Now we can give ourselves permission.
• 42 – 49 Cycle of Spiritual Abundance: In this cycle we move away from stereotyped roles and move into the inner self. It is like we are reborn spiritually; realizing our uniqueness with a greater capacity to love ourselves and really car for others.
• 49 – 56 Cycle of Commitment To Oneself: This period of life can be called the cycle of inventory. During this time, a person regroups his experiences to see if he is still doing what he came to planet earth to do. If he finds he is not on his pivot point, he begins to shift his energy and starts searching for his spiritual direction, trying to find the missing pieces in his life.
• 56 – 63 Cycle of Decision: During this cycle, we are often more preoccupied with the inner life. By this time we have learned to be responsible for ourselves. If a person has not really found himself by then, he will fade out, snap the silver cord, and pass on.
• 63 – 70 Cycle of Inner Tranquility: During this cycle, we are often more preoccupied with the inner life. By this time we have learned to be responsible for ourselves. It is good to be able to approve of ourselves ethically and morally. Life can truly become a pleasure.
• 70 + Cycle of Completion

 

Outcomes

Ultimately it is important to respect your inner feelings, your inner heart’s desire. Mental health and physical health is dependent on this over time. Having a greater awareness of the above topics will establish a solid foundation for your satisfying relationships with your “family.” The Steps To Greater Freedom on the previous page is a pathway to your Inner Freedom.

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